Friday, January 8, 2010

2009 in review: July - September

July was another busy month. Will had a couple of doctor's appointments - eye, ENT, audiology. The eye exam was fine, but we found out that he had fluid in his ears - again. Ainsley had her 15 month check-up. She weighed 22 lbs., 2 oz. and was 32" long. One thing that Will and I did this summer was go to the Barton Library for the children's summer reading program. Each Monday afternoon, the library had different activities going on - a magic show, skits, puppet shows, etc. Afterwards we would go into the children's area of the library and he would play, draw and pick out books to check out. He really enjoyed that. The kids also spent plenty of time outside.


On July 4th, we went to the Harwell's to shot some fireworks with the kids and then Katie and Gray came with us to the stadium to watch the city's firework display.




Our church also had Vacation Bible School in July. I helped in Will's class and Ainsley went to the nursery. Will had a great time. He espescially liked music time. Every morning the entire group practiced 3 or 4 songs that went with the week's theme, and then each class went to music seperately with Ms. Mary Pat. He learned many of the words and dance motions and sang them for weeks. He participated well in all the activities (except maybe snack time)! One day when I picked Ainsley up, the nursery worker said, "Jo Ellen! She is busy!" Ha! Tell me about it! She was good, just active! The weekend after VBS, we went to Hot Springs to meet my mom's family, the Howells. My uncle has a friend who has several houses on Lake Hamilton that they get to use once each summer. The rest of us stay in hotels and hang out at the lake house all day. My mom's sisters and brother and most of their families were there. It's impossible to get everyone together each time anymore, we just pick a weekend and whoever can, comes. My uncle was even able to get his friend's jet to pick up my aunt and uncle, their kids and families in Nebraska!! It was great to have them there! My uncle Phillip took Will on their jet ski, which he of course, loved! Ainsley had just started walking well, so she was all over the place. The lake house was very nice and had lots of expensive, breakable things at kid-level, you had to be on your toes inside and out. We decided that being on a lake for vacation with 2 little ones was NOT very relaxing! It was good to see my family, but the weekend was hard work.



The next weekend we went to Guy and Julie's because Julie and I had signed up to go to a Continuing Education conference at the facility where she works. Mitch and Guy kept the kids while we went to class for 2 days.


The first weekend of August each year is the Colvin reunion in Louisiana. It is usually at the Colvin Memorial pavilion at Unionville, but since it is always super hot, they decided to try moving it inside this year. Mitch was the President this year and he did a great job! It was held in Dubach and was well attended. Here is Ainsley wearing her cute monogrammed dress, sitting in Papaw's lap - eating, of course. The name "Ainsley" is an old family name on the Colvin side - Mitch's great-great-great grandfather, or something like that. Each year someone reads the names of the 17 children of the couple that settled in the area from South Carolina. Ainsley was one of their sons. So, it is neat that Ainsley will get to stand up when that name is called!

The next weekend I helped organize a garage sale put on by Service League to benefit Scott and Katie Harwell. Scott was injured in June while on duty. He was standing behind his patrol car after working an accident at about 3 am one morning when a drunk driver hit him. He lost his left leg. It was quite a devastating loss, but Scott is doing good now. The sale was an idea brought to me by another friend who wanted to do something to help off-set some of the medical expenses. It was a lot of work, but we made above and beyond my expectations and Katie and Scott were grateful. The day after the sale, Sunday, August 9th, my dad got very sick and we were told he had little time to live. He died Thursday, August 13th at about 6:15 p.m. It was a long, emotional week. I will have to save the details for another post at another time.
The same night that my dad died, Will was in the Hope Landing Talent Show, which was held at the Arts Center. Mitch and I were unable to watch the show, but he and Papaw played baseball. They took the doormat that they use as home base, as well has his bat and foam balls. Gill pitched to him and he got several good hits. He ran around the stage like he was running the bases and said "safe!" when he got back to "home". The purpose of the talent show was to focus on the kids' abilities rather than their disabilities. We were able to get a video of it that another parent made. They all did a great job!
The next week, school started for Will. He is in 3 year old pre-school in Mrs. Melinda's room. We have all loved her this year. Will is doing better this year. He is learning a lot and now that he is more verbal, he is able to tell us about it.
Here he is on the first day of school.
The next weekend, Hope Landing had a family fun day/fishing tournament. Mitch and Gill took the kids (we had 4 things going on that weekend, and we couldn't do them all, not to mention I wasn't up to that much socializing at that point). Will got an award for the "Most Patient Fisherman". Papaw took them on a little 4-wheeler ride.


On Labor Day, Vivian's sister Maggie and her son Stacy came up for dinner. They grilled "Maggie chickens" and we had a great meal. Gill had worked on building a swing set for the kids all summer, and the weather was perfect for playing outside on it.





In September, school and therapy were in full swing, Service League was in full swing, we had a few doctor's appointments, a few birthday parties, I worked at HL some, and football season started. We like to go to Wildcat games as much as we can. We took Ainsley to her first one this year. She made it until half time. She was good, just very wiggly! She went back and forth from me to Mitch to Gill and back a million times. We took Will only to several more through out the season. He likes watching the game, the crowd, the band, the cheerleaders - all of it! Here are the kids in their purple/white and a couple of other good pics!


At the end of September, we took a great trip - to New York City!! We took Will only and left Ainsley here with the grandparents. We celebrated our anniversary while we were there. I'll also save that story for it's own post.

Saturday, January 2, 2010

2009 in review: April - June

The next few months were busy ones. Ainsley turned one on April 4th. I think it was the fastest year of my life! It flew by! She was born on 4/4/08 at 7:42 am (at the peak of a thunderstorm!), weighing 7 lbs., 4 oz. and was 20 inches long. At her one year check-up, she was 19 lbs., 4 oz. and 30 1/2 inches. She is long and thin. Neither of our babies have been chunky, rolly-polly babies, but that's okay. On her birthday, we had a family birthday party. My brother and sister in law, Guy and Julie, came down for the weekend. We also did her baby dedication at church on Sunday, the 5th. We decorated with butterflies and gave her a butterfly mobile to go over the rocking chair in her room. She got a brush/comb set with her name on it, a picture frame that said "My first Birthday" and Julie made a dress with a big "A" on it. Very cute! Ainsley dug in to her cake, which we figured she would. The weather was nice, so we spent some time outside. At her dedication at church, she was pretty squirmy and wanted to grab the preacher's microphone, but we got through it. She wore her cute blue and red dress with her name on it.






Will had an Easter party at school, and both kids went to an Easter egg hunt hosted by several kids Will's age. On Saturday, 4/11, Ainsley took her first steps (and said "Daisy" - the name of our dog)! She was fully mobile shortly after that and things haven't been the same since. Two mobile kids is a lot different than one! Will took his first year of art "lessons" this year. Jorge and Maria Villegas teach a small group of kids at the Arts Center on Wednesday afternoons. He enjoyed it and they both loved Will.



In the spring, FBC Kindergarten does a special event called "Donuts with Dad". All the kids get to invite their dads, grandfathers, uncles, etc, to have donuts with them in the Fellowship Hall. Mitch and Gill ("Papaw") had donuts with Will; of course Will didn't eat anything, but he enjoyed having them there.

We also celebrated Papaw's birthday in April with dinner and cake.


May brought my birthday, Mother's Day, the Hope Landing Rodeo, filming for the Hope Landing video "Heros of Hope", the end of school for Will, and a trip to visit friends in Memphis. On May 1-2, Hope Landing (where Will gets some of his therapies and where I work from time to time) sponsored a professional rodeo that was held at the fairgrounds. Since HL incorporates hippotherapy (therapy utilizing a horse as a tool - "hippo" is the greek work for "horse") into many kids' therapy schedules, they sponsored this rodeo as a fundraiser. Will was supposed to demonstrate a hippotherapy session with Kristi Lowry, his OT and one of the founders of HL. He was all set up on Rio, the horse he rides each week, when a severe thunderstorm rolled in. The lightning spoked Rio, so Kristi called Will's demo off. We left as it started pouring, but we were disappointed not to have gotten to see Will and Rio. We had dinner on Sunday at my mom's for my 33rd birthday. She got this fantastic peanut butter and chocolate cake, my favorite!


Later in May, HL filmed a profession video called "Heroes of Hope" to be broadcast on national TV stations and YouTube as a fundraising effort. Will is featured participating in a Physical Therapy session, I am doing aquatic therapy in the pool with a child, and Gill is interviewed in this video. It turned out very well!
Will's preschool class had a party for their last day on the 22nd. There were some really cute, sweet kids in his class. For Memorial Day weekend, we went to Memphis for our annual "Lion Oil reunion" - a weekend where we get together with several other couples who used to live here and work with Mitch. Not everyone gets to come every year, but we have a good time with whoever is there. The Aikmans, Myricks and Burnses live in the Memphis area, so we met there this year. The Strattons came up from New Orleans. We went to the Memphis Zoo and to the Children's Museaum of Memphis with the Aikmans. The kids had a great time.




June brought Father's Day and Vivian's (Grammy) birthday. The kids played in the back yard, played in the pool and sprinklers, and Will took his first ride in Papaw's boat!






Friday, January 1, 2010

2009 in review: January - March

HAPPY 2010!!!
Today is January 1st and one of the things we want to do this year is to document our year via this blog. But first I want to look back at 2009. I like to save my calendars so that I can look back at them years later to see everything that happened.
In January 2009, Ainsley turned 9 months old. At her check-up with Dr. Ray, she weighed 16 lbs, 6 oz. and was 28 1/2 inches tall. She was a good eater and would take her bottles of milk in her car seat or high chair. She was starting to eat a variety of fruits, vegetables and meat in the form of cut-up table food and less baby food. She had started to reject breastfeeding because she did not like to lay down - she wanted to be sitting up, looking around! She did not like to be cuddled much. In January, I quit breastfeeding her and continued to pump for another month, giving it to her in a bottle. I hated to give it up, but she was much happier.



In January, Will went to a winter play day at our church, First Baptist. He had a great time throwing "snowballs", "skating" and all the other activities they had. He even got a snowman hat that he stills likes to wear sometimes a year later.


Mitch and I had lots of Deacon and Service League meetings and other boring stuff! In February, Mitch turned 35. We celebrated at his parents' house with his traditional "yellow cake with chocolate icing" made by his mom. And, of course, we celebrated Valentine's Day (Ainsley's first). The kids loved the balloons they got.


Our friends the Aikmans came to visit one weekend. John and Annette live in Memphis now. They have 2 kids - Lexi, who is a few weeks younger than Will; and Matthew, who is a few weeks older than Ainsley. Matthew had just started walking!

In March, I started getting ready for Ainsley's first birthday the next month. I found a cute dress on eBay and had her name put on it. I had birthday pictures taken in it.

Also in March, I went with 2 co-workers, Allyn and Suzanne, to Las Vegas for a continuing education conference. I was nervous about leaving my babies, but we had a great time. We were in class all day for 2 days, but we had one free day. We explored the city from one end of "the strip" to the other (and back). We had so much fun!


All in all, the first quarter of 2009 was pretty good!